Managing and maintaining your wellbeing
The importance of balance
We all have a limited amount of energy to use each day. How we use that energy across all areas of our lives affects our work-life balance. Putting too much, or too little, energy into one area can lead to an imbalance and imbalance can affect your wellbeing. When your wellbeing suffers, so can your physical health, emotional health and your relationships with family and friends. If your wellbeing is in a bad way for a long time, it can lead to burnout. Burnout is emotional, mental and physical exhaustion.
What is balance?
Balance is about giving the right amount of time and energy to the important aspects of your life. As we’re all different, the ‘right amount of time’ is different for each of us. To get the right balance takes time, self-reflection and some ‘trial and error’. It’s important to re-evaluate and change things if it’s not working.
We also need to be flexible so we can deal with changes and challenges. Sometimes we may need to work a bit harder or sometimes rest a bit better.
Balance isn’t static – once you’ve achieved a good balance, you need to keep working at it. As life changes and you face new challenges you need to adjust your balance and know how to bring yourself back in line with your goals. There are six main elements to managing your balance:
- self awareness – what you need for a good balance
- time management – managing your load
- goal setting – what you need to change
- problem solving – removing any obstacles
- stress management – managing pressure
- assertiveness – saying no when you need to
Common elements of balance
Some common areas of life that affect our wellbeing:
- work – paid, voluntary, home duties, study
- personal development – identity, self-esteem, learning and stimulation
- social – family, friends, groups and teams
- spiritual – values, beliefs, religion or faith
- psychological and emotional – managing thoughts and emotions
- physical – exercise, sport, activity, diet
- leisure – relaxation, rest, play
Benefits of balance
A balanced life increases your personal health and wellbeing by:
- reducing stress and preventing burnout
- stimulating the immune system and promoting recovery from illness
- increasing general sense of happiness and wellbeing
- providing perspective
- increasing physical health, energy and motivation
- increasing self-esteem, self-development, productivity and flexibility
- providing social support and connectedness
Recognising imbalance
Signs of imbalance may include the following:
- decreased energy, motivation and flexibility
- increased stress, frustration or worry
- withdrawal from others
- getting overly involved in work
- negative attitude towards work, people or self
- negative changes in general health and performance
- negative lifestyle habits. For example, increased smoking, drug use, caffeine and fast food intake or reduced activity
Over time these signs can impact on your heart health and immune system. This can lead to an increased risk of burnout and lifestyle diseases, such as heart disease, obesity, ulcers, diabetes and some cancers.
Obstacles to balance
Obstacles to balance may include the following:
- lack of motivation
- running out of time and energy
- a lot of responsibilities
- lacking time management skills
- high levels of stress or illness
- lacking assertiveness - ‘I can’t say no’
- can’t see the imbalance
- unexpected life events
All of these obstacles can be overcome with effort and the right help.
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